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Taking Charge Of Your Life Part A. by Ifedayo Owoseni



Who Is In Charge Of Your Life? Who Makes The Decisions That Determine How You Experience Your Life? Regardless Of Who You Are, The True Answer To Both Questions Is, “You Are.

What Does It Mean To Be Taking Charge Of Your Life?
Being In Charge Of Your Life Means That You Are Making Choices About How You View Your Situation At Any Given Time. Because Your Decisions Frame How You Experience Your Circumstances, They Determine Your Quality Of Life.

Successful People That Took Charge Of Their Life And Became Rich

1.      Aliko Dangote: Walk Up To His Uncle At His 20th Birthday To Establish A Cement, Sugar, Rice And So On. Today Is Worth Is $16.8 Billion.
2.      Frank O Dea: Well Known As The Co-Founder Of Canada’s Largest Coffee Shop chain, He Has 360 Coffee Location Across Canada.
3.      Suze Orman: Lived In Her Van For Months Due To Financial Conditions, Today She Is A Renounced Personal Finance Guru. And Her Net Worth Is Over $25 Million
4.      Roman Abramovich: This Oil And Aluminum Tycoon Lived The Life Of A Poor Orphan When He Was Just Four. He Once Made His Living By Selling Plastic Ducts. Today Is Worth Is #11.2 Million.
5.      Steve Jobs: He Was The Adopted Child Of A Working Class Couple. Who Could Barely Afford His College , Today He Is Founder And  C.E.O Of Apple Computers, His Worth Is $29 Million
6.      J.K. Rowling: The Queen Of The Fantasy Novels And Author Of The Harry Porter Series, Her Worth Is  Is &1 Billion, Rowling Tried To Commit Suicide Because Of Her Financial Situation
7.      Opray Winfrey: She Lived A Childhood , Which Include Sexual Abuse, Utter Poverty With Barely Hand To Mouth Earning From A Farmland. She Is Now Worth $2.4 Billion. She Put Her Resources Into Social Welfare And Exposing The Evil Of The Society.
8.      Robert & Kim Kiyosaki: Author Of The Rich Dad And Poor Dad Series, The Couple Lived In The Van For Months Because Of Financial; Difficulty, They Both Work Hard Together And Took Charge Of Their Life, Today The Couples Worth Is $500 Million As At 2012.
9.      Mike Adenuga: He Worked As A Taxi Driver To Fund Is Education. Globacom, His Mobile Phone Network Is The Second Largest In Nigeria, He Also Has 6 Oil Blocks In Niger Delta Is Worth Is $9.9.
10.  Folorunsho Alakija: Was Nigeria First Female Billionaire Has Earn Her Wealth In The Fashion And Oil Industry $1.55billion.
11.  Linda Ikeji: She Is A Successful Nigeria Blogger< Writer And Also An Entrepreneur, She Started Writing At The Age Of 10 Her Net Worth Is Over $12million
12.  Toyosi Akerele: She Was From A Very Humble Background She Holds 7 Certificate From Different Universities (Cambridge University, Pan African University, The Project Management College, University Of Jos, University Of New Hampshire, Uk Institute Of Digital Marketing ). She Is Rank Among The Most Powerful Women In Africa.



How to Take Charge Of Your Life
1.      Put God First
2.      Discover Your Purpose And Make Up Your Mind
3.      Develop Your Mind
4.      Have A Positive Mindset to become a problem solver
5.      Set A Goal & Write It Down
6.      Get Up And Get Busy
7.      You Need To Stay Focus
Have a Focus unto Your Focus with Focus And You Will Become D Focus People Will Focus In As They Are Focus
8.      Get Rid Of Fear
F- False E – Expression A- Appearing R –Real (To Get Rid Of Fear You Need Self-Confidence Self-Belief & Self Esteem)
9.      Watch and manage your character
10.  Work to be the best
11.  Manage your time

Reasons Why Youth Don’t Take Charge Of Their Life
·         They Neglect God.
·         Consistence Procrastination.
·         Fear.
·         They Keep Blaming Others (Parent, Government).
·         The Distraction From This World
·         Peer Pressure
·         Lack Of Patient.
·         They lack purpose and direction.
·          

Small Scale Importation Jobs Young People Can Engage Their Self In
·          
·         Freelance Online Jobs
·         Office To Office Hawking
·         Recruitment Agency
·         Bead Making
·         Drinks Production
·         Poultry/Fish Farming
·         Soap, Detergent And Bleach
·         Catering Businesses
·         Photography And Video Coverage
·         Interior Decoration
·         Home Service Hair Cut
·         Private Class
·         Affiliate Marketing
·         Printing And Sales Of Recharge Card
·         Popcorn Vending
·         Buying And Selling
·         Graphic Design/ Web Design / Blogging
If you’re Not Careful. Life Will Make Your Decisions. Life Will Decide For You When You’re Too Slow To Make Up Your Mind And Do Something About It. Life Moves Too Quickly To Wait Around For You To Do Something, Anything! So, Don’t Make Life Wait Around; Decide Now What You Want And Take Charge Of Your Life So You Can Find The Happiness You Seek. Taking Charge of Your Life Starts in Your Mind, But It Ends with You Speaking Up, Taking Action And Living The Life You’ve Always Wanted.
You Can Be What you Want To Be
If Only you Do What It Takes To Be
What you Want To Be

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